Showing posts with label Patience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Patience. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Being Patient


Our Fingerprint appointment was scheduled for this afternoon at a particular government agency here. The lady at the office called this morning around 10:45am to inform us that the office is closing today at noon and she is having to cancel all of the afternoon appointments.

She said she was not aware that the office was closing early today and they are not open tomorrow, New Years Eve. We were up already in sweats (not dressed to go out) and we knew that we could make it, but we had to stop and get money orders from the bank for the fingerprinting agency and get the bank to notarize the fingerprint document to take in. We were hoping that we could have this taken care of today as scheduled since my husband is off today and tomorrow.

We rescheduled for later this week. Completing this adoption is very important to us, but it is a challenge sometimes when you feel as if others are not considerate of your schedule as well. I just wish that we were called a little earlier so that we could have taken care of this morning and called it a day.


We went round and round with her on the phone trying to find a time that we could both come back in since they close before most people get off work anyway, and I wanted this taken care of before I went back to work since my schedule is not so flexible. I guess the lady felt bad because she knew this was for an adoption process and she did try to work with us in terms of being flexible with rescheduling.


While the adoption is top priority and taking care of this is important, we still have jobs to go to and I have been trying to avoid missing any unnecessary time off work for additional appointments that can be taken care of during vacation. I am somewhat anal when it comes to sticking to schedules and making sure that we meet our deadlines, while still not abusing the flexibility of my husbands job with these appointments that we have to attend.

I guess this is where your patience is tested and we have to learn to roll with the flow, even when it is out of our control.


Surprisingly, I wasn't the one that was upset over the time being changed, it was my other half!

He is fine now, and he realizes that many things are out of our control, but I guess his issue was "professional courtesy" and giving us advanced notice since we were on a time line with vacation and other factors. We are going to go get the money orders today for the fingerprinting and get the letter notarized since that was our original plan anyway. Everything will be ready for our appointment.